“Pull your pants up”

I came across to see this on Facebook and this had me laughing but it was true.  No one does not want to see your drawer so pull it up. It is not cute to dressing like that and it make you look like you walking like penguin. No offend guy, it is  the truth. Who are  you trying impress me? I know you ain't trying to impress me. I would have cross you out. 

We only We seen the men “Pull your pants up” version.. I like this one much better.  here is the woman version, ” Pull your pants up unless you’re a chick.” I understand that men like it but I don’t want to see your crack so get a better size or wear a belt and have some respect. Especially I don't want anyone to see my crack. I make sure my pant is up before I get up or sit down.  I used to be one of those chick back in the day. I didn't even know my crack were showing until someone told me so I start wearing a belt. It is totally embarrassed. 

Female 10 Commandments

1.   Thou Shall always...... provide the cheeks when called to do so.


2.   Thou Shall not speak if thy "dose" not know what one talks about.


3.   Thou Shall cook at least four times a week


4.   Thou Shall always wear heels when we go out.


5.   Thou Shall be quiet during football and basketball season.


6.   Thou Shall mind their own business. 


7.   Thou Shall not learn to drive for not in the kitchen. 


8.   Thou Shall not criticize us for playing video games. 


9.   Thou Shall not talk back or you will be forced to "EAT THE CAKES."


10.  Thou Shall have a job. 


I got this post form my good friend Mr. Greeneyez AKA AP. Gotta give him credit because he is speaking the TRUTH...<------- SOME. lol. 

A Day of Remembering on 9/11, Not Forgetting

Ten years ago from this day 9/11, we couldn't believed my own eyes of what happen. From that day, that moment, I couldn't understand what was happening. Everything was on my mind and couldn't focus. I remembered I was a 12th grader pay attention in class at Miss SD and I didn't even know anything about it until someone mention me about it and lead me to television. It was very shocking and speechless. I couldn't believe How could someone be that evil to crash a plane through a TWIN TOWER. I couldn't imagine it. It just a shocking in totally disbelief. It is like my mind couldn't function. A question always appear in my mind, what if that happen to me? I just saw 9/11 Tribute Anniversary today and it is so heartbroken to watch. I admired Firefighter who give their all and struggle to save lives through collapse building. Those 343 Firefighter died a great HERO. More than a thousand of people died at World Trade Center. May God Rest Their Soul. My love goes out to those who lost their loved ones.

I would love to take a trip to visit to visit the World Trade Center site that feature two fountains in the Twin Towers' footprints. When I look it, it is beautiful.

A prayer for the East Coast

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I am  praying for the families, friends, and people who live on the east coast. I just hope all my families, friends, and people are safe. The east coast just had a minor earthquake couple day ago before Hurricane Irene was on their way up north. Something ain't right. Like Seriously.I just pray that Hurricane Irene will play nice with the east coast. Some people had lost their darn mind because surfers want to go to beach to surf during the big storm. A 22 years old surfer died in the big storm and the rescue had to pulled him out of the beach. May God rest his soul. Some people are extremely excited to see Hurricane Irene passing by the street. <---- Crazy. 

I kinda lost myself for a while because I thought today was the 28th and I went to Walgreen to check out the new product which is coming out on that day and My babies didn't came on. I meant the Saints game. I finally realized today was the 27th, not 28th. I was like, what in the world going on with me... Irene was on my mind all damn day since 5 am and had me worrying about my people on the east coast. I really need to mediate myself. LIKE SERIOUSLY. 

I always wondering why Hurricanes always come when it is time for the kids to go back to school? Why can't they come back at a better time? Yea, it is Hurricane seasons from July to November. We usually don't get Hurricane in July but August is a start. 

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NFL is finally BACK...

I am so damn excited that NFL football season is finally back. Damn these lockout. They have gone way too long and I have enough of these NBA. It is time to bring my babies back. lol. I was very disappoint not to see all of the game last week of the preseason. They didn't show all of the game that I WANT to see. I am very disappoint to see Reggie Bush had to play for another team. I am going to miss him. I will support him but sure ain't rooting for Miami. lol.. Goooo Saints.... Who are you rooting for this year? I am in badwagon of another team so Don't hate. ha. I am not going spill my juicy detail out that yet but you can sure always figure it out. Saints will always be my babies. MY BABIES. I am waiting for Raiders vs Saints because my boobear and I be fighting all the time but it was cute, though. I will always be his Saints-Raiders Booboo cakes.. yea, I put the SAINTS first because you love me, boobear. lol

Happy July 4th

Happy Independence Day and enjoy your time on this special day. I don't know what July 4th will bring me on that day. My boo better come up with something. lol. be safe and have fun. No drink and drive. You could save an innocent lives.

Happy Father's Day 2011

To all the handsome fathers, soon to be fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, fosters dad, stepfathers, grandfathers, and play fathers, out there, Especially my lovely father who passed away two years ago, I wish you a Happy Father's Day. This day should be very special and make it memorable for them. This is a day to honor all men who have acted as a father figure in their life and can pass that tradition along with their son.Thank your dad for bringing you into this world. You are his reason for being in this world. If it wasn't for your father, you will not be here.

My father had not been in my life since I was born. I don't blame my father for not being there in my life, not at all. I have seen my father from time to time as I was growing up though. I am really okay with that. In deep in his heart, he knows I will always be his babygirl. I love my father no matter what. We might not have a great father/daughter bond but I still love him & I forgave him. He will always be my father no matter what. I accepted him back in my life since I was 24 years old but really, he was already in my life since he bought me into this world and Im so grateful for that. Another reason he already in my life because I visited my father's side of the family ALOT when I was a little girl. It really puzzled me why my mother stop me from visited there. Anyway, I was so devastated when my father passed away in 2009.  He was a good dad and he had not forgot about me. He always make sure I have money or anything that I need. He can't stand his baby girl being broke. "She gotta have money in her pocket." Daddy, Happy Father's Day even though u are not here but I know you are here in spirit. I thank you for bringing me into this world. If it wasn't for you, I WILL NOT be here.  I love you, daddy.

NBA Final Championship 2001::Dallas Mavericks

It is hard to believe that Dallas Mavericks won the NBA Final Championship of 2011. My prediction is so wrong and I sworn in my gut that  Miami Heat will win this game for sure. They surely don't want the game and they kinda of gave up. Miami Heat play a great game and I enjoying my time watching the game and beefing with my girlfriend which she does not know shit about basketball. It was kinda of fun when she questionnarie me about basketbal. I think it was cute. ha. I want to Congratulation Dallas Mavericks for wining this championship this year. They play hard to win this championship and they deserve it. Mavericks put all their heart in this game and they show it all. Did Miami Heat did the same thing, no, I just don't see it at all. Where is the spirit and the fire? it just died when Dallas Mavericks keep beating their ass on the court on Game series 4 and I thought Miami heat will win this game at their home game. What the hell just happen? Oh well, Miami Heat's fan started to leave the stadium which it is really sad.

Take the Mask Off, Tiffany

I never thought this was New York aka Tiffany Pollard. I was shocked to see a natural picture of her. My gosh, She is so damn beautiful. I mean no damn homo. I am speaking what is on my mind. I have seen a picture of her but I didn't even know it was her. I thought it was just a random infamous picture of natural sisters. I read some blog about famous natural sister as I was scrolling down the page, I was like, SHUT UP AND WHAT THE HELL! It can't be her. No Way. She is gorgeous. She really did fool me. I showed it to couple of my friends and she didn't even know who she was until I told her. They were shocked as HELL. She was fooling everyone by putting extra mask to hide herself. Oh wow, She really does not need all that extra package to look that good. She already look good before she put those extra mask on. She is more beautiful the way she is.

She is more prettier when she was natural but with a lot of change I see in her, she is still pretty. I browsing around her picture and I have found couple of picture of her which I think it is way too much. All of them extra package is not that cute.

Cougar is not my name.

I will not be part of a Cougar category. That's so not me. I don't want to be someone's grandma, aunts, or cousins. That will not be me at all. I have so much respect for young cute guys. I would hook him up with my nieces or cousins who are in the same age as him. That is what I would have done. These days, some of these cougars have done lost their mind but that is their preference and their want. I am not feeling any of this. I have a lot of 20 years and up  try to holla at me. They are just a young little innocent baby. They tend to get mad when I said that. That is how I feel. Boys these day don't give a flying fuck about age but I sure do. We can be friends but we will not cross that boundaries. That will never happen. Why can't young guy find someone like their age? Today's society is so fuck up right now. Younger guy is going out for older women and older guy is going out for younger women. Oh well, fuck that category. Cougar is not my fucking name. I won't label myself a cougar.

If you are somewhere between 19 to 24, you are just a cute young baby to me. I am  old enough to be  your cousins, aunts, or grandma. I won't scoop my standard that low for that. Baby, you have a whole life ahead of you, why would you want to mess with a grown women?  Mane, you know what irk the hell out of me. "Stereotype of younger guy love older women." I am getting tired of hearing that shyt. It is kinda of annoying. Sex is the only reason why he want to be with older women. Age is nothing but a number but a jail is a place for you. Shit, it sure does bother me as well. My ass is not going to sit in jail for that shyt. lol. I  can't really say age is nothing but a number unless I don't give a fuck.

This 22  years old dude want me to be his sexy cougar standing next beside him with his arm around him to show off to the world. Baby, I won't  be your sexy cougar, find another sexy cougar. He is so damn crazy.

 This 21-year old rapper/actor Romeo was recently spotted smootching with 60 year old Kirstie Alley! This is really wowed me. I can't imagine that. I am not here to judge but wow. That is beyond crazy.

NBA Final Championship 2011: Heat or Mavs

NBA Finals Championship of 2011 is just around the corner. You know I am not rooting for Dallas Mavericks. I have been L.A. Lakers fans for years but Miami Heat, too. Miami Heat got this championship this year. One thing I miss the most is Derek Rose playing on the court. I see you, soon, baby. He is the beast in the game and sure is a HOTTIE. If you were a team of heat, I will most def. watch you all the way, baby. loling with my crazy self.

So who do you think will win the championship this year? So Miami is leading the series game 2-1

Is it Miami Heat? 

 Or

Is it Dallas Mavericks?

"I've found myself" quote by Doro

I love my girl's anecdote. She grown up to be a beautiful mother and she  is beautiful on the inside as well on the outside. Im so glad to have her as my true friend. She is the only girl I can talk to. I want to thank you for being such a great friend to me and I love you.

"I'm not ashamed to say that Ive outgrown certain people in my life because at some point you have to take the time to realize who your real friends are.. there comes a time in life when you have to put immature things behind you because it will only hinder you from succeeding. let go of all the baggage and the drama and surround yourself with positive people. its like a breath of fresh air when you're secure in your own skin and you know exactly how you want your life to be. Its called finding yourself and I'm glad to say that I have definitely been found." --- Doro W.

My personal stories:

I definitely can related what is going on with my life on her anecdote. I have been experience of going through fake friend with too much baggage that was affecting my life since I have graduated Gallaudet U. I just started to act funny immediately because people focus on me too much and worry about my life way too much. At the same time, I felt hurt but I let my pain heal by itself. I feel that they are taking control of my life and trying to live my life the way they want to. Hey, Hey, Hey, Hey, it is my life and let me taste my own medicine of what life is about. I have decided to cut couple of people out of my life with less drama. One of my friends quote, "The less friends you have, the better your life will be." So I can do me and do what I want in my life. You can advice me but you can't judge so it is better for you to keep your judgment to yourself. You have no right to be in that position except GOD. After I flushed all those fake friends down the drain, I felt so much better. No pressure on my plate to deal with so much drama. From there, I feel so much free. Once you go through the life you experience, you will understand it much better.

Happy Mother's day 2011

To all of the beautiuful mothers, soon to be, sisters, aunts, cousins, fosters, play mothers, and any mothers out there, I wish you a Happy Mother's Day. You all have a very blessed day. Go ahead and treat your mother like a queen. never ever take someone you love the most for granted. She had been there for you for many time so be thankful for that. Love her no matter what situation it is. They are the one who carried you for 9 months of pain, raised you to be a better person. Thank her for bringing you into this world.

My mammie, I want to say that I love her so much. It it wasn't for her, I WILL NOT be here. I'm so glad that she is my mother because she is very unique. I admired her strengths and everything. She gave her all to raised three of us without our fathers in our lives. She worked so hard to put food on the table and make sure we have roofed over our head. She is a great mother and she made me to become a better person. I am proud to have her as my deaf mother. Momma, I LOVE YOU AND HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY. I am started to miss my mama so much because I am so far far away from her. She knows in her heart that I miss her, too.

Jumping the Broom is a must

I gotta see this movie called "Jumping The Broom.” coming out on May 6th. It is a must to see. I think this movie is going to be soo gooood. It will have my favorite man in the show: Mr. Pooch Hall. I can't wait to see him. The main problem is that I won't be able to hear everything of what each character saying and it is going to make it very hard for me to depend on my hearing throughout the movie. I'm going to miss out a lot when I am planning to watch it at the movie theater. You already know that movie theater does not provide closed captioned for disability people. I really don't care about that but I got to see this movie. I don't want to be the last person to watch this movie. Deaf people will always be the last person to see this movie. Six months later, hearing folks always make a comment and say,“Damn, you are so late, this movie came out like six months ago.” They got to understand that no closed captioned was not available. Anyway, I can't wait to see this movie and I don't want to hear no stories of the movies.

Greyhound Bus I hate

Don't you hate riding Greyhound Buses? Don't you hate riding longest hours and days to get where you want to go. The prices are so cheap but SHIT, Greyhound buses ain't worth it. I know I definitely do hate it very much. I tend to take Greyhound buses to Washington, DC, Arizona, North Carolina, Florida, and etc. That was the longest trip that I have ever experience and very uncomfortable when you try to sleep. they stopped too much just to waste time. I hate buses being delayed or have to wait 3 or 4 hours for your bus to leave at certain time. I hate riding Greyhound buses when I go to places to places. Greyhound buses make me sick to my stomach but I do not have any choice. I would love to fly but buying a ticket off the airport or online are RIP OFF. They charged too much for a ticket and they want more money for luggage. What more do they want? The only reason why I fly southwest  because they re the cheapest. I didn't take the flight because they didn't have available day for me to leave on that particular day and time and it cost way too much for last minute trip.  I had to take my damn stinky ass to get a bus ticket to get to where I am going. The buses in Baton Rouge, La you, suck big time. I was running an hour late to go to Florida. There were a lot of people lining up to head to Fla and they didn't have the second bus available. We have to wait for hour and half to have a  available bus driver to leave to Fla. I was so damn pissed off. I never took a bus head to Baton Rouge, LA to get to Fla. I always sit in the front of the bus so I know where I am going . Greyhound bus can be uncomfortable if you are going for a long trip.

Happy Easter's Day 2011

Those who celebrate Easter's Day, Happy Easter Day and enjoy your special day. What I love about Easter is seeing a beautiful smile on a child's face when they hunt eggs. They make my day. Beautiful smile on a child's face is the most important.Not just celebrated Easter, Celebrate Jesus Christ's resurrection from the dead, is most important holiday.

My Blog MISSED Me So Much

Hey Everyone, 

I most definitely miss writing blog everyday because I have been away too long. I need to get back writing blog. It seems like I am taking a vacation for a month. I'm out of town that is why my blog had not been very active. I'm having a great time in Va but really, I was at Fla for couple of days. Sexi Shea Bear will be back soon. I have been on a lot of stress during my mini trip. I am trying to sorta my feeling out and deal with it but on another note, I am having fun in Va. I just wish thing were totally different and it was not what I expected. I will most definitely will be all right. I really need a laptop so I can type my blog anywhere on my free time when I am bored.

Anyway, If I don't make it by Easter time, Happy Easter's Day and have a great day. I miss you

Is it LOVE OR LUST?

Since I have been with him for almost three years but never have close relationship because we lived too damn far. I have been very loyalty and faithful since we have been in relationship. It is time to take this love action into consideration. We have been on and off on this long distance relationship and it is killing us as well. Long Distance Relationship can be a damn BITCH but all it takes to have STRONG faith and trust. If you don't have that, it won't work. oh well, I so much hate it very much. We need to spend more time together and take it from there. I need to use my judgment to find out what page I am on. I really want him to be on the same page as I am. All I gotta do is be a FBI investigator on him. Do he loves me just the same as I love him? Or Is it just sex? Will a guy tell you the truth that he want love from you than lust? or Would he just lie to get what he want?  I rather have a conversation in person instead of emailing or texting. When I am with him, I don't feel lust from him, I feel so in love with him. Love and lust can be so confusing part of the relationship. We have been meeting each other six time in three years. At first, I thought it was friend with benefits thing but it lead to more than just friend with benefits.I need to take this situation into action instead of wasting time. I know the answer to myself after I read it. Oh well, it is either good or bad, I am good.

I was browsing through website of Love and Lust and it got me mind blogging hard throughout the website.

Here is a definition of Love and Lust:

* If you still feel attracted when your lust is satisfied, then it's love. Most people confuse lust with love; the difference is that while lust is self-serving love is unlimited and unselfish..

Is it lust, or what?

So how can you tell the difference between lust and love? Here are a few tips to help you sort things out.

 
It's lust if:

    * You're totally focused on her looks and body

    * Even before you know her name, you're already fantasizing about what she looks like naked and what it would be like to have sex with her.

    * You don't care about anything she has to say

    * It wouldn't make a difference to you if you never had a conversation with her. Furthermore, you don't bother to return her calls promptly and you can easily go for days without talking to her -- until you get horny again.

    * You only want to be with her to have sex

    * You make excuses not to spend time with her, except for sex. And if she asks you for a favor, you tell her you're too busy. But if you have to be with her and not have sex, she gets on your nerves and you find yourself fantasizing about other women.

    * She's your booty call

    * After you go out trolling for tail with your buddies on Friday night, you then call her at 1 a.m. for some drunken action. Ah, the booty call.

    * You leave after sex

    * After having sex with her, you look for the easiest way to leave. No cuddling, no breakfast the next morning, just "I gotta go."

It's love, baby

It's love if:

    * You have great chemistry

    * You get lost in your conversations, and the hours pass like minutes. You're more than willing to listen to her when she talks about her day. The chemistry between you is remarkable.

    * You find her beautiful

    * Even if you catch her with no makeup on and her hair pulled back while she's unclogging a toilet, she still looks beautiful to you.

    * You want to spend time with her

    * All you want to do is to be with her, whether you're having sex or not. Even if she tells you that sex will have to wait, you don't care.

    * You see a future together

    * You experience the strange feeling that your life would be totally empty without her. You tell your friends and family that she may be The One, and you're even thinking about marrying her.

    * You introduce her to your family

    * It becomes very important to you that your parents like her, and that she gets along with everyone close to you.

    * You include her in all your plans

    * Whether you're going out with your male friends or taking your dog for a walk, you want her there with you. And if she's not there, you can't get her off your mind and sneak off to give her a quick "I miss you" phone call. Of course, you don't tell your buddies.

    * You are more romantic

    * All of a sudden you find yourself listening to cheesy romantic songs and thinking of her. You send her flowers and love notes to work and set up romantic evenings candlelit dinners at home.

    * You always take her side

    * If someone says anything even slightly disparaging about her, you immediately rise to her defense. Furthermore, in social gatherings, you always agree with her even if you disagree behind closed doors.

    * She makes you want to be a better man

    * She challenges and motivates you. She makes you happy, and you'd do anything to make her happy.

    * When it is love, you catch yourself thinking about how much fun you have with that person and when it is lust you catch yourself thinking about their body.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_know_if_it_is_love_or_lust

Mother Nature

Mother Nature have their eyes on you. lol

Mother Nature had not been very nice to Mississippi. It had been crazy for couple of days. Mother Nature bought those week of icy nightmare. The weather forecast warn us that big storm were coming that week. Do we all watch the weather forecast or listen to the radio about what happen outside before hitting the highway. No one expected what kind of weather it will be because Mississippi never receive this kind of weather often but it happen, tho. Big storm caused the road & bridge to froze. We all need to use our better judgment when we know Mother Nature is on our way. Two week ago, we had big storm coming but all of us did know what it will be like. A lot of accident had happen that adn it was tragic. Some of the car runs off the bridge, hit a pack of ice and hit a tree, traffic was slow and dozen of cars and drivers were stuck for up to five hours or more waiting to get out of the road even some of them run out of gas.  It was CRAZY when I was reading it on the news. The road and jobs should have been closed so any of this will not have happen. 

Should MDOT<Mississippi Department of Transportation> take the blame for the icy nightmare that happen that day? I will partially say it is both. the people on the road should take their decision very considering and MDOT crew should be on the job spreading more salt on the road earlier before the weather hit them. MDOT did all their best they can to prevent that from happen. They have no idea that the bridge was going to be ice over according to Hall. I would say If SOME PEOPLE just used a little common sense and stayed off these bridges none of this would have happened. Take some responsibility for your own actions!! The state is not responsible for anyone's decision to cross a bridge during winter weather. I am a little disappoint about the people have to go to work even though they knew or don't know that big storm was coming and they have to drive back home even though they live to far. Jobs should have been CLOSED. All I can say, it is Mother Nature, can't blame on them. People who out there thinking they can beat this weather. Mother Nature will always win. Can you survive thought flood, tornado,earthquake, and etc.

Friend With Benefits

In some point of our lives, we, the women may experience friend with benefits, One Night Stand, fuck buddy, fling, booty call, sex friend or whatever and we learned from it, same thing go for the guys as well. I think there is absolutely no shame in that so I went thought the same thing. No one is perfect. Here is my question that had been mind blogging for a quite while.  What does Friends With Benefits really mean to you? Everybody have different perspective of definite of FWB. Friend with benefits should be meeting about sex only & nothing more. My definition of friend with benefits involve two person having sexual relationship with no strings attached. People does not get understanding what NSA mean. All of the sudden you will hear a person said I am so in love with him or her. Your mental pause and say WTF just happen? what happen to NSA? lolz. During sex relationship, there should be no hugging, kissing, touching, holding hand, NO NOTHING. There should be no expensive dinners, no rose, hanging out, or NO NOTHING. There also should be no dating, no emotionally involved. NO NOTHING. JUST FACKING. It is all about sex and meeting your need. If it does happen, the relationship will become very complicated and you have to put end to all of it because either one of you who develop feeling WILL end up getting your feeling hurt. To continue friend with benefit, someone WILL get caught up into feeling. No question asked. It is impossible for a person not to have feeling for each other and still facking each other many time. Friend with benefits ends up one friend friends falling for the other and they will have a hard time getting that out.You just can't hoping or waiting for the other person starting feeling you as well if you already have feeling for that person two or three years. So waiting for that person to make you their partners is a waste of time so don't let your precious time to wasted on that. It won't happen but maybe to some people. You can always discuss the boundaries for both parties before you take this friend with benefit relationship further and always play it safe. Take the agreement serious.

From my personal experiences, I have experienced fling, and friends with benefits. it is not a good thing because it can ruin your friendship. I have lost my good friend over two years and there is no way you can stop your emotional for getting in the way. I couldn't do it. I was the one end up getting my feeling hurt because I let it happen. We made decision that we will not going to settle down and don't want to be in relationship. It is felt great to be in FWB but the other way around, it is not good. We facked three or four time a week, being so romantic in public, kissing, touching and feeling each other in public. I told him to stop because people are watching us. He doesn't give a damn who watching. I don't want the neighborhood to be up all in my koolaid. We were just keeping it on the low but it was hard. He keep coming to see in me public. He slept over my house a couple of day and I slept over his house. I had to call it off with him because I was feeling him more and more everyday. He tripped because he doesn't want me to be with no other man. He always asked me if I was facking with other men. We are not in relationship, so it is my choice to be with other men. He is too selfish. He got mad about it because he doesn't want me to call it off. It's my choice and I made it that way. Sometime I wondering if he was catching feeling with me because he was always saying "I miss you." I asked him a question about issue of being pregnant. From there, that was it. I couldn't put myself in those position. There is no way in hell that I am going to be dealing with a deadbeat dad. In two years later, No texting, no nothing, he found me on Tagged and email me out of the blue just want to friend with me. There is no way I am accepting him as my friend because we will be living in the past again. Now he wants another sex marathon with me. Is he out of his fucking mind? I stop talking to him because he still the same person. I flushed his friendship with me down in the drain. It was a great friendship but he decided to mess that up. Another thing, he got mad if I call this friend with benefits or just a booty call. Why would he get mad for? SMH.

So what is wrong the picture? I wouldn't call it friend with benefits. It is a bunchy of heartache.

I am in love with the person who I thought he was my fwb but he want to take it to another level. WOW. All I want it to be a fling with him, and it turn out I am falling for him even more. I never thought I will be in relationship with this dude. it is a blessing. I will never ever put myself in that position again because I don't like one bit.

here is some rules of having friend with benefits:

• No quality time
• NO Romance
• No Sleepovers
• Be Brutally honest
• No Holding Hands
• No calling just to say HI
• Safe sex
• Absolutely no pet names.
• Set Boundaries

Lmao at this agreement!!!!!!!! This is a perfect example for Friend with Benefits Agreement. lolz.

This pre-booty call agreement (hereinafter referred to as the "Agreement") is entered into on the _____day of __________, 2008, by_______________________, between ____________and______________.

THIS AGREEMENT SHALL COVER THE FOLLOWING RULES AND PRINCIPLES:

1. No sleeping over - unless it is very good and we need to repeat it in the morning.

2. No meeting in public except for dinner or drinks before the events of the evening.

3. No calls before 9 PM - we don't have shit to talk about.

4. None of that "lovemaking" shit - only sex allowed.

5. No emotional discussions (i.e. Where are we heading with this? Do you love me?) The

answer is no, so don't ask.

6. No plans made in advance - that is why you are called the "backup," unless you are from

out-of-town, then it's only a one-time advanced arrangement.

7. All gifts accepted - money is always good.

8. No baby talk - however, dirty talk is encouraged.

9. No asking for comparisons with former lovers - it's really none of your damn business.

10. No calling each other "friends with privileges" we are not friends, just sex buddies.

11. Calling out the wrong name during sex is OK - don't be offended.

12. No extra clothing - I don't want your ass leaving anything behind when you leave.

13. No falling asleep right after sex - it's over, so get your ass up, get dressed and go the

**** home.

14. Don't be offended if I don't ask if you enjoyed it - I don't care.

15. You cannot borrow my car for any reason.

16. If anyone asks who you are, the standard response will be: "My roommate's

girlfriend/boyfriend."

17. Doggie style is the preferred position - the reason is less eye contact the better.

19. No condoms, no ****ing. Carry your ass home.

20. Bring your own drink - I am not your liquor store.

21. No phone use, please - don't want anyone calling back looking for your ass.

* EXTRA TIP FOR SUCCESSFUL BOOTY CALLS:

The aforementioned rules may only be altered by the holder of the agreement. If the other party attempts to change or alter any terms of this Agreement, it will automatically

become null and void and you will then be removed from the BOOTY CALL LIST and deleted from phone memory and email list. In other words, you will be BLOCKED from all communications until your silly ass understands the rules.

Participating Party

Signature_______________________________________

Date: ________________

Participating Party

Signature_______________________________________

Date: ________________

NFL Super Bowl XlV Championship: Green Bay Packers

Green Bay Packers won the NFL Super Bowl XlV Championship. My gut was so right and I knew they were going to win that bowl. I was so alone supporting this team and I knew I have haters on my back. haha.. At least, I got my cousin and some friends with me to support the Packers. This game gave me too much of heartache because Steelers were so close to win the Super Bowls but the Packers won't that to happen. They did a great job of winning this game even though Charles Woodson & Donald Driver was out of play due to shoulder injury. I was expecting that he will be back on the field to play Unfortunately no luck of that going to happen.  The Packers and including the Driver and Woodson were doing so good on the first half but the rest of the half, I am very much disappoint that the two of them never did return back on the field. If the two of them back on the field, THEY WOULD MURDER STEELERS WITH 40-25. I am sure that Woodson & Driver is super excited that his team won.  I really enjoy watching NFL Super Bowl XIV Championship: Green Bay vs Pittsburgh Steelers. Green Bay Packers keep NFC championship going strong and it will stay strong every year. Amazing Job, Packers.  For the Steelers & Steelers's fans, I am very much admire your history & tradition but tonight is Green Bay Packers' s night. Packers, Let it shine. The Packers deserve that beautiful trophy. Green Bay Packers won their fourth super bowls this year. They have not been in the Championship bowl since 1998. I hope I am correct.Correct me if I am wrong.

 I just love when Steelers fans quiet down on facebook because they were mad that they lost the championship & didn't even try their best to win tonight. Talking all that smack is not going to help them win the championship. I plead the fifth, I did some little smacking but I was in my humble mode for rest of the half. lolz. Oh well, They will be all right."Don't hate the players, hate the game." lolz. Steelers played a great game tonight. There is always next year.

The super bowl halftime was okay but it was so good to see USHER RAYMOND performer O.M.G on the field. We need more such as TREY SONGZ, and other. I know it will be hot. lolz. 

Commercials: I have absolutely no comment on this . All I can say they sucked big time. The Doritos commercials are working on my last nerve at the end and the snicker commercials was so funny when Rosie got hit by a log. Ouch, that hurts. . lolz. There is some commercials that I find very interesting and funny but other, suck as well. Do more game and less commercials. These commercials ain't make us laughing hard but I really enjoying the movie previews and some of the car commercials.

Congratulation to Green Bay Packers

Congratulation to Green Bay Packers

Bowl Time 2011

Super Bowl XLV: Pittsburgh Steelers vs. Green Bay Packers

 You know what today is:: SUPERBOWL TIME. Let's get this game started. I am looking forward to watch the biggest game of the year. I am not that excited to see this game unless my handsome babies playing. WHO DAT!!!!! New Orleans Saints will ALWAYS be my number one fan but I am sad that they didn't make to to the Super Bowls. Oh well, there is always next year.  lolz.I am just rooting for fun. I am supporting this team does not mean they will be my favorite team. No. I should be neutral  in this since I support both last January. So Anyway, I know I am gonna have a lot of haters on my back because I am rooting this team. You haters got my fans famous and keep it going. I know this team will definitely will win the Superbowl Championship of 2011. No question asked!!!! My gut is telling me so I keep my answer to myself. I might be wrong but I HOPE I am not. I will try my best to stay humble on facebook. lolz. I supported Steelers & Green Bays to win the Super Bowl so I know one of the teams will win the Super Bowl championship. I am not mention any name. lolz. I wish I could be with my boo to support this team. I will be his opponent and make him mad and stuff. lolz.

My facebook status:  

I am rooting that #Yellow&_ _ _ _ _ .#Yellow&_ _ _ _ _ .#Yellow&_ _ _ _ _. Im rocking that #Yellow&_ _ _ _ _ . I ain't rooting tha #Yellow&_ _ _ _ _ .#Yellow&_ _ _ _ _ .#Yellow&_ _ _ _ _ .I aint rocking that #Yellow&_ _ _ _ _ . Go _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _. #_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _Rocks!!!!   Can you figure which teams I am supporting? So Go figure...  

Kevin Hart statement: 

"Ladies today is "National Shut Da Fuck Up Day" I advise u all 2 leave ur man alone....fellas if ur smart u will lock her out of the house." - Kevin Hart.. 

Lmao.. lmao.. Ladies, you know it is so true but damn, he is so damn wrong for that. Let the guy have their last football season to watch & be there to support them. Be his opponent but don't talk tooooo much. lol. Women loves football as well. 

To Packers & Steelers, 

I wish you good luck.

Valentine's Day is approaching soon.

Valentine's Day is around the corner. Valentine’s Day is a special holiday that celebrated on February 14. It is the traditional day which lovers express their love for each other; sending Valentine’s cards, or offering candy. Valentine does not have to be sex. it is about show how much you love that person. To give my two cent worth, I really HATE Valentine's Day when you don't have a partner to share with. I do have a  partner but he will not be available to be here to share my valentine with and I know it feel sucks. I know he is out there thinking of me on this special day. No one dare to have a perfect day to have a perfect Valentine's Day. Oh well, I am going to make the best of it on Valentine's Day. Just wondering what Valentine's Day of 2011 will bring me. I hope it will bring my baby. lol

I wish I have the power to cross Valentine's Day off the calendar? That is totally out of option. We all have to deal with Valentine's Day whether you are single or in relationship.

Dear Cupid,

                 

                  I love my baby with all my heart but he is not here with me. I really miss him so much. Will  you, cupid, mind to shoot an arrow on him just to bring him to me? I am so desperate to be with him on Valentine's Day? Thank you so much and I really appreciate it. 

Much love, 

Sexi Shea Bear 

February will be here very sooner. I just wish we can skip February because it is not my favorite month to go through. I am going to celebrate Black History Month.

At 74 rocking real good. My inspiration: Mrs.Ernestine Shepherd.

Mrs. Ernestine Shepherd is my inspiration and she totally amazed me all the time. She is the most beautiful women I ever seen. It is so astonishing to see that she got a body like a 21 years old at 74 years young. Yea, I said 74 years old. When I saw her on Monique Show on Bet, It shocked my eyes to see how amazing and so brave she is. She looks AMAZING. I truly believe that at any age is just number but you can still have a body like that if you set your mind to.

This amazing women who is the Guinness Book of World Records' oldest female bodybuilder runs 80 miles a week, benches presses 150  and she does all that.Who can do so much better than her? NO ONE. She is HISTORY.  At the age 56, she started to working out at the gym after her sister passed away and dedicated her life to her own health ever since. She got it going real good. Mrs. Ernestine, You go ahead with your badd self. Ms. Ernestine. If she can work that body good, you can do it. She ain't afraid to show what she got. She is my inspiration and she make me wanna say, YES, I CAN DO IT AND I'M GOING DO IT. Lolz. Mane, She is inspiration to all women. 

"She is a unique figure in the world of fitness."

I always thinking about going to the gym to lift those weight which I miss very much but costly too much at the fitness center. I really need to tone it up real bad. I miss hitting the gym. I don't think I never ever will have a body like Ernestine, but I am working on it!" All I want my body to look sculpture and tone good. Dang, I can' t do i t like her.. Getting up at 3am to work out, Sorry, sister, I definitely need my beauty sleep but you SURE do look AMAZING.

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Her motto is: ‘Determined, Dedicated and Disciplined

Mane, there is no damn excuse for us to be  so lazy  at all and she sure did put us in SHAME and including men, too. Maybe some of us don't feel shame but I sure do. If you set your mind to, u will get the best result at the end. So don't give up and keep working out. I really need to start working on that. I am going to STOP making excuse and Let me hit the gym.. I need to blown up her picture and post it on my wall so that will keep me motivated when I can look up to her.

I have a dream of establish my own big fitness or Recreation center along with 6 different aerobic class, basketball gym, weight room, pool, spa, 20 miles park center, and etc.